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About amindfullife

Passionate about living every moment as best I can. Continually emergent and a work in progress

Whose mountain are you living?

Perhaps having spent this week in the shadow of The Mountain, it is apt to reflect on mountains.  If you have never been to Cape Town this should definitely be on your list of destinations to visit.  And if you … Continue reading

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Vast ocean of I don’t know

When I embarked on this journey of befriending the world of I don’t know I had no idea how deep or vast this ocean would be.  If I had known, that after more than ten years (well, maybe a life … Continue reading

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Outside, looking in

September 11th.  Not possible to not write about this day.  A day etched and hardwired into my own memory, as it is in that of so many others.  A day of shock, confusion, grief and loss.  A day that precipitated … Continue reading

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Trust in the difficult

So today these are definitely just musings.  Musings of something I have little experience with other than my personal, and cannot give any specific advice about. I am just musing about that which is here.  For me.  Right now.  I … Continue reading

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Dreams of a Dung Beetle

If you have been to one of my presentations these past few years you will recognise this photo.  I use it constantly and like to tell the story of the dung beetle, a scarab.  How it finds a nurturing environment … Continue reading

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The day your worst fear is true!

Each day demands that we show up with courage and humility, for it may start off well and end up in a completely different place.  One that we could not even have imagined and we may have little control over … Continue reading

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The “bad news bear”

“Isn’t it hard?” my daughter asked.  “To always be the one doing that?  Doesn’t it affect you?”   Her question may perhaps be a simple one but I felt it, and knew it to be, a much deeper query.  Especially after … Continue reading

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Acceptance

“I finally seem to be accepting it”, my dad said last night.  His voice warm, close, and caring in my ear, despite the distance of a continent’s span between us. “What?” I said.  “That you are old?”  We had been … Continue reading

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Hello world!

Welcome to my musings in general on life as seen through my personal filter.  I make no pretense to know anything.  I write from my own lived experience and knowledge.  Perhaps you may find something to muse about for yourself … Continue reading

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